Pet Peeves
Denise & Mr. Wilson
I’ve changed the names in this column to protect the privacy of the people I’m writing about. My name is changed...
Wisdom Workout
Emotional Etiquette
Do you have friends or relatives that you don’t like talking to because they interrupt, invalidate, shut you down, give you quick and...
The Kibitzer
The Towering Flowering
I only went out for a walk, / And finally concluded / To stay out until sundown, / For going out I...
Taking Stock
Bad News Gets Higher Ratings
“Don’t sell on strike news” is one of Wall Street’s oldest adages. This appeared in the 1880’s, reflecting a period...
Pet Peeves
Ancestry.com(e)
I can vouch for the Indy’s “Study Confirms 6.3 Million Visitors.” My wife and I have had 6.3 million relatives since January. That’s how...
Village Matters
Not Even Noticing
The ultimate in not being racist is to not even notice. My neighbor and office assistant Ann Henry told me about a...
Pet Peeves
Good Luck, Neophytes
I felt exhausted after reading the Indy’s “The New Activists Emerge” in the Feb. 26 edition. Political neophytes are coming out of...
Heart Talk
Teaching in the Time of Trump
“Do you miss teaching?” That question has been asked of me so many times since my retirement. I first...
Taking Stock
Market Tuning Beats Market Timing
The financial media pump up fear and greed, often agitating investors to trade on emotions. This week, Tesla (TSLA-$297) hit...
The Kibitzer
Festivals Are The New Religion
Spring has sprung, and that means gazillions of wildflowers in Southern California, the start of America’s pastime (really, baseball?), and...
Pet Peeves
Walden’s Pool
A dear childhood friend of my wife’s said, “We can’t wait to visit next week. I took the boys to the library and...
Wisdom Workout
Core Competence
A hallmark of personal competence is the ability to make discerning choices. Choosing well requires the mental work of uncovering, discovering and committing...
Taking Stock
Calculated Risks
Despite an irregular beat from Washington, the stock market continues to roll along like Ol’ Man River. The river is narrowing and there...
Heart Talk
What You Can Do for Your Country
Thanksgiving, as well Newport Beach, have felt the slings and arrows of this columnist. The new president, Dana...
Village Matters
So Much Fun Ahead
On Monday we all gathered for a mini potluck, saying farewell to one of our most dedicated and endearing gardeners. She...